This applies to so many things in my life right now. I am trying to focus on dealing with challenges and problems, and I think I am locked in. Although I float between the Learning Zone and Fear Zone with the self-confidence, I am building in that area.
My swings apply to my Lupus, weight loss, health in general, work and then life (family and friends). I feel pulled in so many directions, and want everyone to be happy with me, I forget to be happy with myself. Staying in the Fear Zone is something I do not want to do. It seems I don’t consciously think that I am there.
Today I put myself out there…extending my comfort zone. I spoke up for myself, and felt validated afterwards. It is so hard, especially when I think others have a preset idea. It is good to be heard, listened to, and acknowledged for my thoughts and ideas.
Presenting myself in a way that speaks self-confidence, I have gained more self-confidence. Ironic really, and now I want to grow more.
What zone do you linger in? How have you conquered your personal growth or not?
Blessings today and always.

Do you have this? My David is this for me. He continually supports me and encourages me.
Thankful for those that love me and put up with my day to day crap. Thankful for those friends who tend to me regardless of my situation.
Trying to stay in the moment. Shari is the one in the middle, and Hank’s precious wife. I love these women. Yesterday was a hard day, but glorious in the way Hank touched so many lives. I am thankful for being his friend.
There. We were there when we needed to be. I will be there when I need to be for Shari and her family. I need to just to not obsess about this. Ugh!



I am not going to get it all done…just putting this out there. Feeling okay about too.