This applies to so many things in my life right now. I am trying to focus on dealing with challenges and problems, and I think I am locked in. Although I float between the Learning Zone and Fear Zone with the self-confidence, I am building in that area.
My swings apply to my Lupus, weight loss, health in general, work and then life (family and friends). I feel pulled in so many directions, and want everyone to be happy with me, I forget to be happy with myself. Staying in the Fear Zone is something I do not want to do. It seems I don’t consciously think that I am there.
Today I put myself out there…extending my comfort zone. I spoke up for myself, and felt validated afterwards. It is so hard, especially when I think others have a preset idea. It is good to be heard, listened to, and acknowledged for my thoughts and ideas.
Presenting myself in a way that speaks self-confidence, I have gained more self-confidence. Ironic really, and now I want to grow more.
What zone do you linger in? How have you conquered your personal growth or not?
Blessings today and always.