Bariatric Surgery - My Story · new habits · Uncategorized · walking · WLS

Walk

Walking.  I am trying to make walking a habit.  I love it when I actually go and do it.  It is just getting out there to accomplish it.  Habits take 21 to 30 days to form, right?  That’s what the experts say anyway.  Trying.

Yesterday evening, David and I decided to walk downtown Fort Walton.  I love this walk. We were going to follow the route for the 5k that we did in December to see if we could improve our time.  We decided, as we were walking, to go over the Brooks Bridge.   I was apprehensive because we had Dexter with us.  Well, and just in general as it wasn’t what we planned.  But I did it.

We got up to the top of the bridge, and David stopped to take these pictures.imag1133imag1135

What you don’t see is the traffic, the bridge bouncing, and wind blowing.  I couldn’t stop as I was handling Dexter, and really didn’t want to stop.  I love this view.   I love that this is where we live.   We got to the bottom, and went under and back over the bridge on the other side.  We did better on time than I thought, and it was a really good elevation for us to do.  Legs were feeling it.

Legs.  I have lots of skin issues with the weight loss, and need toning (in addition to more weight loss).  I really just want to be healthy.  I like where my body is headed, but don’t want to stop being active.  I knew that there were going to be skin issues.  And I know that my body is still changing and adjusting.  I just want it to look different now.  (Everything in its own time, right?)

This walk was perfect.  Tonight we are going to walk it again without Dexter, and hopefully improve our time.  Maybe I won’t be as anxious since we already walked it, and I know what to expect.

Do you stop to smell the roses along your way?  Thankful David did.  Thankful we chose to do this route.

Blessings.

 

 

Anxiety · Changes · thoughts · Uncategorized

Doctor Office

I have been experiencing more anxiety in the past couple of months. I scheduled an appointment to see primary care doctor on Wednesday last week. She is amazing, and the pictures below are wall decor in the room where I was seen.  This says everything you need to know about her.  Genuine care giver.

She loves taking care of people, and doesn’t just prescribe a pill.  I have been doing some Young Living Oils (lavender, and tranquility), and they have helped.  Trying some other home methods to calm my spirit, and having a doctor listen, and understand helped even more.

I am having more stress than I was aware, and she did prescribe a take as needed (not everyday) pill for me.  We all struggle at different times I think.   It is nice to know that I can take something to help calm me when it gets to be too much.  It was encouraging to know that I am not alone.  More of us struggle with anxiety than we are aware.  Having a doctor that cares really does help.

Blessings for today, and always.

 

 

Empty Nest · Recipes · Uncategorized

Lobster Tails and Asparagus

Reminder that we are on a budget…and don’t really celebrate Valentine’s Day.  But we had gone to Whole Foods and gotten two packages of lobster tails to treat one another this past weekend.  They were on sale (which is the main reason we got them).

We also got a package of fresh asparagus.  I love roasting vegetables.  The nutty flavors come through with broccoli, carrots, and asparagus.  If they are bitter, I like to add garlic or a purple onion on the roasting pan to sweeten the vegetable.  These asparagus didn’t need anything but olive oil, salt and pepper.

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asparagus

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For the lobster tails, we split the tail with scissors.  Added a pat of butter, parsley, and season salt.  Placed on a sheet pan covered in foil and broiled for about 12 minutes.

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plated

I thought I would do something special since we are still new to this empty nest of ours.  It was very simple, our regular plates, and silverware.  Just added place mats, cloth napkins, and candles.

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simple table

It was a nice evening, without children.  We shared doing the dishes.  It was really nice.  Then I did some homework. Ugh…but we had a nice dinner in.  Simple, but so nice.  I think we should eat at the table every night.  After tonight, I think we will try to at least once a week.

How was your Valentine’s Day?

Blessings.

thoughts · Uncategorized · Valentines Day

Valentine’s Day

Happy Valentine’s Day!

I got these flowers from David a week after Valentine’s Day last year.  Aren’t they beautiful?  He likes to surprise me, and not to be told when to send flowers.  We don’t celebrate the holiday or make a big deal out of it.  Never have.

This year we decided to treat ourselves to a special dinner that we will both cook.  We went to Whole Foods in Destin, Florida, last Saturday.  They had lobster tails on sale.  Sold!

I am super excited by cooking them, however, not sure what to serve with them.  Everything is an adventure, right?

What are you doing for Valentine’s Day?  Do you eat out, cook, make something sweet?

Blessings!

Bariatric Surgery - My Story · Sunday · Uncategorized · Waffles · WLS

Waffles, Bacon and WLS

Yesterday morning (Sunday) David states that he is wanting waffles.  He is the house waffle/pancake maker.  So I thought…YAY! Waffles, crap, I can’t eat those.  Then I remembered my protein mix.  I had made pancakes before with the Kodiak Cakes mix, why not try waffles.

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David added an egg to the mix for added protein.  My serving below.

I ended up eating more of it than I thought.  I was drier than a regular waffle, hence the extra syrup.  Yummy.

It was a good Sunday.

How was your weekend?

Blessings!

 

blessings · Sunday · thoughts

Sunday Thought

I stress about doing everything perfectly. This reminds me it doesn’t matter if it is perfect. God’s grace. ❤

Sunday Blessings!

Craft · Craft Room

Craft Room

We have started the transition of Stephen’s old room to my craft/work room.  The room needed to be cleaned first.  Then paint.  So…before:

It was the same color, not the greatest of pictures.

Paint.  I wanted two tones of grey.  Or gray. Whatever.  Grey.  It would be a good color for accents of black, white, coral and shades of blue.  I am not really sure how I want things in the room yet, but colors I’ve got.The darker color, Aviatrix, is the color I chose to do on the window wall.  Dorian Gray will be on the other walls.

I will continue to post the progress.  I need to get a second coat of paint on the walls today.

Happy Saturday Blessings!

Budget · Meal Prep · Uncategorized

Budget

Well, we have not been the best stewards of our money, and have really put fourth the effort not to eat out a lot, or purchase anything unnecessary since the first of the year.

We are trying to snowball our debt (too much to note here), and so far it is going well.  David and I have been strong with one another.  With Stephen moving out, it has been a bit easier with groceries, and not over purchasing.  I am trying to meal prep on the weekends.  Mainly cooking the protein for the week.

So far, meal preparation has been the best thing.  It keeps us from going out because we have something already prepared. I will be posting more about the meal prep and menu planning later in the month.

What have you done since the new year?  Walking, eating healthier, budget –no spend month?

Comment below, and until tomorrow…

Blessings!

friends · Mom · thoughts · Uncategorized

Gifts of Sunshine

Gifts of sunshine.

My kindred spirit sent me a pillow with You Are My Sunshine on it yesterday (Mom’s passing anniversary). This little verse from a sweet song was something my Mom always sang to the kids.  Always.  On the phone, in person, while doing laundry, always.

I have been more emotional this year than most, and I opened the box and cried.  Such a sweet, simple gift, but incredibly thoughtful.

Little things mean so much.

Smile at someone today.  You never know just how much they need it.

Blessings!

 

Mom · thoughts · Uncategorized

Mom

Mom has been gone eleven years today. I miss her more it seems today.


Mom and I August 1978.

Happy Birthday Mom!

Mom with Carmen and Stephen around 2002.

We miss her.

Blessings!