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Thanksgiving

“Thanksgiving is a very important holiday. Ours was the first country in the world to make a national holiday to give thanks.” – Linus

“What if, today, we were grateful for everything?” – Charlie Brown

gallery-1447355901-wdy-quotes-10There are so many things I am thankful for this year.  We are healthy, have a home, have food to eat (more than enough).  We have family here at the moment.  We have friends that we enjoy and care about like family.  We have jobs.  Really no complaints.  I miss my Mom, but I always do at this time of year especially.

I am thankful for you.  Thank you for reading, liking, and commenting on my blog.  I appreciate you.  Thank you.

Continued blessings – especially today!

Jerry Ann

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Sunday Thought

Needs versus wants.  I really thought I had everything I needed, until I met someone without a home.  A friend from my past posted that they needed help, and I jumped.  I have gotten burned again, but it doesn’t stop me from giving.  Although would I do it again?  Yes.  I will always help but in a different way.  It is my heart that hurts to hear that someone might be sleeping in their car.

We live pay check to paycheck as I am sure a lot of people do.  We have over extended ourselves, and are surviving.  All I could think about was not having my home.  Just one more job loss, or tragic event and we could be in the same boat.

These friends just can’t seem to crawl out of their despair.  I was warned before I helped them, as apparently, they have done this to several friends.  They have gone to them over and over asking for help with no apparent way out.  Lost.  Stephen asked me why they couldn’t stay with family.  They had said they couldn’t go back to them.  I believe that they have exhausted themselves with most everyone here.

They wrote to me after an altercation with David (he came asking for more money) saying that they felt like scum, and ashamed.  That they wouldn’t be coming to us again, that we have helped enough.

I don’t believe we have helped them in the correct way.  Giving them money wasn’t the answer.  I am not sure how to help them at this point because it has gone on so very long, but my heart wants to help.  I continue to search for answers feeling lost.

“People need to know that Jesus set us free from cycles of destruction we’d been in for years.  People CAN change.  Give somebody hope.” – Beth Moore

Blessings.

 

 

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Monday

Monday is okay after a restful weekend with friends. 


Blessings.

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Sunday Thought 

God’s glory. 


Thankful for this time with precious friends. 


Saint George Island, Florida. 

Blessings. 

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Friends

Friendship.

I don’t have family that lives close.  I have lost most of my immediate family too early I believe.  I am blessed with having friends that I consider family.

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So very grateful for the friends I have today…in this journey.

Blessings.

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Hold Hands

Carmen and I went to one of her friends weddings this past weekend.  It was a really sweet wedding, and had lots of country charm in the decorations.  One of the things they had guests do was to write down marriage advice on these pre-printed cards.

Mine was very simple.  Hold hands while speaking of anything difficult.  It is hard to be angry or defensive with someone if you are holding hands.  It means you are in this together.  Whether it be finances or the storm that just cause three things to crash, it means you are in this together.  Together.

Touching means that you care for one another.  That nothing in this world can come between you.  That is huge!  David and I are both on the second time around in this marriage.  We wanted to be able to conquer whatever came our way.  Holding hands when talking about difficult things makes things seems reasonable.  Obtainable.  Doable.  Together.

Always together.  We can conquer anything together.  Sometimes it is the hardest thing imaginable.  I don’t want to confess that I haven’t been the best steward about spending.  He doesn’t want to say what is bothering him about money or the house, or whatever.  But we realize that holding each others hand makes us in it together.  Marriage isn’t always the best day…it is getting through the worst day together.

Blessings!

 

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Bad Storms

“A bad storm can blow in a beautiful season.  The Bible proves over and over that how something begins does not get to dictate how it ends.” – Beth Moore

Hurricane Nate brought down our tree, our oven went out (igniter) and my computer crash with my final essay on it for my English class.  My Mom used to say that everything comes in threes.  Well, we had our threes.  David was wonderful in being able to repair the oven (replaced the igniter), and my computer (he does this for a living).  Purchasing a chainsaw and allowing friends to help is difficult.  Relying on help is not something either one of us like to do.

I was told once that you take away someone’s blessing when you don’t allow them to help.  This is so true.  I love helping—if able.  Why wouldn’t we want help?  Well, we are independent, secure, we can do it ourselves – right?  I love being able to say, “let them help.”  It blesses both the giver and the receiver, right?  It does!!

Storms never bring good things…but what comes out of it, can be good.  We only suffered a tree falling over.  That is it.  Well, and some tiles off of the roof.  But really nothing major.  We now have a chainsaw, and will be able to assist if others need assistance.  Love that.

I absolutely freaked out about my final essay, and my computer crashing.  I cried when David was able to retrieve the Word document.  Cried.  I used to say bubble over.   You know, when you just can’t hold it in anymore, you bubble over.  Tears flow.  Cried.

My anxiety is such that I manage fine while something is gong on…but the moment it is completed, or over, tears flow.  Relief.  My body knows that it can let go.

I am so very grateful for family and friends that were able to help David take care of the tree.  I am grateful for my hubby being able to recover my document for my English class, and to Google to repair our oven.  I am grateful.

Blessings.

 

 

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Hurricane Nate Part 2

We ended up purchasing a chainsaw.  Thankful for sweet friends and family to come and help.  So very thankful that this was the only damage.

Apparently, it only took about two hours with the many hands of help.  So thankful for these hands.

Feeling overwhelming grateful.

Blessings.

 

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Hurricane Nate

Woke up this morning to our front oak being uprooted.  So very thankful that it didn’t come toward the house or on the cars.  Julie (bestie, and neighbor across the street) took this picture from her house. We will have to wait until the storm is done before we can do anything about it.  Thankful as well that the trees in the back yard are still standing, and have a good root system.  Also thankful that David and Stephen have tomorrow off to work on this project, although both had other plans.  I am sure that the squirrels that had a nest in this tree had other plans as well.  Will post more pictures of the progress in the next days ahead.

Blessings!!

 

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Leak

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Well, God came through, and our friend came.  He was able to hop onto (David’s words) the roof, and just fix everything.  Apparently, a squirrel decided he liked our shingles so much that he ate through the part of the roof’s ridge line.  We will wait out the repair, and hopefully the rains will prove Travis’ work strong and durable.

Friends are amazing when God places them in your path.  It had been over a year since we had spoken with Travis and Jess, and there was not one pause about coming to help.  Helping when able (even when you aren’t really able) is such a blessing to both the giver and the receiver.   They wouldn’t take anything for payment, and if had been reversed, we wouldn’t have either.

Overwhelmed by God’s grace.  Please continue to pray for us and we tighten our belts, and stick to what needs to be done instead of what we want.

Blessings for this Monday, and always.