I know it doesn’t seem like much but my laces are straight, in the middle of the shoe. I recently realized that I am able to do this. Actually bend over to tie my shoes. The ties used to end up on the inside part of my shoe. I had to hike my leg up on the bed, and grunt while doing that. Struggling to tie them, I didn’t care where the bow was located.
I really like tying my shoes now. I like going for walks. I am liking this new me.